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Honest, Hot, Pressure-Free Intimacy Starts Here .

The Lovers Society is a heart-led, therapist-designed membership community that helps couples melt resentment, communicate with ease, and rebuild crave-worthy intimacy — even when you're exhausted or unsure where to start.

LET'S REBUILD YOUR INTIMACY TOGETHER

Rebuilding intimacy. One moment, one conversation, one touch at a time.
You got this. And we’ve got you.
Where couples come to feel close again — emotionally, physically, soulfully.
Learn to ask for what you want.

You are SO worthy of Soul-Quaking Connection. Your journey back to it starts now.

Imagine looking at your partner and actually feeling close — no pressure, no awkwardness, no pretending.

The tension? Gone.
The silence? Replaced by playful touches, gentle laughter, and conversations that don’t spiral into shutdowns or fights.

And intimacy? It feels mutual. Organic. Joyful. Something you both look forward to, not something you force, avoid, or resent.

The Lovers Society is here to make that your new normal.

You've Tried Couples Therapy. You've had the hard talks. And yet...the intimacy still feels off.

For so many women and couples, the biggest gap isn’t just communication. It’s lack of sexual connection.

It’s the subtle avoidance. The lack of initiation. The “we’re just not on the same page sexually” moments that slowly chip away at our self-esteem and closeness.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF:

	You’re emotionally exhausted, and so is your sex life.
	You barely talk about intimacy and when you do, it turns into conflict, a power struggle, or silence.
	Something’s off sexually. Maybe it’s pain, low desire, or performance anxiety — and you’ve started to wonder if you’re broken, too much, or not enough.

💔 1 in 5 couples are in a low- or no-intimacy relationship.

Most stay silent—until the resentment builds too high or the distance feels irreversible.

But it doesn’t have to be that way for you.

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If your love feels off but you don’t know where to start, you’re not alone. This weekly guide helps you reconnect emotionally and rebuild intimacy with bite-sized, pressure-free tips you can try in just 5–10 minutes.

Because you deserve more than just surviving together.

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What Changed Everything For Me...

I created this for you because I've been there too. After I had my baby, I lost all sexual desire.

Touch felt really uncomfortable. Intimacy felt impossible. I wasn’t just tired, I was disconnected from my body and my partner.

My husband and I had to work — really work — to find our way back to each other.
It took time, compassion, and the right tools.
But we made it, not just as co-parents, but as lovers again.

That journey changed everything.
It’s why I do this work and why I created The Lovers Society.
Because I’ve been where you are. And I know there’s a way back to trust, pleasure, and intimacy feeling light again.

This is the space I wish I had.
And now, it’s here for you.

Xo,

Marissa Nelson, LMFT, M.S.Ed, CST, CSE

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Award-Winning Sex Therapist & Founder of IntimacyMoons and The Lovers Society

Imagine how different your relationship (and sex-life!) could look

sex isn't stressful

You stop dreading the question: “Are we ever going to have sex again?”
You’re not avoiding it, bracing for it, or overthinking it. You initiate & receive pleasure with confidence.

resentment fades

Imagine no longer keeping score.
The tension under every small request? Gone.
You’re working with each other again — not against.
And that energy shift opens the door to softness… and yes, intimacy.

pleasure & Fun return

You’re not performing. You’re not pushing through.
You're feeling. Wanting. Choosing.

And that first time back?
It’s not just sex.
It’s healing. It’s euphoric.

introducing

ROOMMATES to LOVERS Courses & Community

As a Founding Member of The Lovers Society, you’ll unlock our powerful 3-part course designed to reset your intimacy, communication, and connection.

It’s the foundation for a relationship that feels safe, sexy, and emotionally rich—especially if things have been distant or difficult for a while.

START YOUR TRANSFORMATION NOW →

The results are waiting for you.

As long as you follow the trainings and show up and put in the work, you can finally start seeing results in your relationship ASAP!

	Weekly live trainings with plenty of time to get your questions answered
	Lifetime access to 60+ video lessons and resources
	The Private Community: A chance to connect & grow with other couples

You don’t have to figure this out alone.
There is a way back to each other.
It’s not too late to feel close again.
This isn’t all your fault.
It’s okay to need help with this.
You’re not alone in feeling this way.

let's break it down

Here's what you'll learn...

let's get started with relationship foundations

module one

Roommates to Lovers: The Intimacy Reset

We help you understand your communication, conflict, and coping mechanisms so that you can rebuild healthy and lasting communication skills with or without years of therapy.

You're going to get:

Identifying the root causes of disconnection (e.g., life stress, routines, unspoken expectations).
Emotional intimacy exercises to rebuild trust and closeness.
A deep dive into communication blocks, defenses, and how to break through them with skill and ease

module two

The Courage to Connect: Overcoming Sexual Rejection

You’ll learn how to navigate low desire, unspoken resentments, and communication breakdowns — while building emotional safety, playfulness, and real pleasure both in and out of the bedroom.

You're going to get:

Understanding why sexual rejection happens, and how repeated rejection silences desire and confidence
Step-by-step tools to identify your sexual blocks and move through them with confidence
Reframe rejection as a doorway to deeper intimacy, with scripts and real-talk exercises to go deeper

time to get a little more in-depth about your intimacy Patterns

now here's the icing on the course cake!!

module three

Desire & Pleasure: Unlocked.

This module is all about rediscovering what turns you on — emotionally, mentally, and physically.

You're going to get:

Techniques to bring back playfulness, fantasy, and spontaneous touch
Scripts and rituals to co-create a shared vision of intimacy that grows with you
Curated sex toy reviews, exclusive discounts, and tips to level up your pleasure

no stone left unturned

Everything you need to get your groove back!

With a Circle That’s Got Your Back.

Inside The Lovers Society, you’re not just learning from a therapist. You’re growing alongside a community of real couples who get it. The “are we the only ones?” feeling? That disappears when you realize you’re not alone.

This is a shame-free, judgment-free zone where vulnerability is celebrated, not avoided. Every step forward is a win for you and your relationship. You’ll learn, unlearn, laugh, cry, and reconnect… together. Because healing is hard AF — but doing it in community makes it powerful.

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the bonuses

You'll also get access to these resources to support your journey

The Intimacy Playbook

Because Asking for What You Want Shouldn’t Feel Scary.

Learn the Pleasure Mindset Framework™ a proven path for navigating mismatched desire, avoidance, and shame as a team.
Step-by-Step language guide to express desire, set boundaries, and share what you’re open to exploring.
Masterclass Vault: On-demand tools for unlocking intimacy, communication, and confidence, anytime you need it.

Somatic Nervous System Healing

Pleasure Begins with Safety. Healing Starts in the Body.

Guided somatic bodywork to soften tension, regulate overwhelm, and invite touch with intention.
Specialized EFT Tapping Scripts + Mind-body Techniques to help your nervous system heal, and rewire your fear response into safety, openness and eroticism.
Daily Check-In Rituals to reconnect with your inner world and create emotional safety in real-time.

Daily Micro-Intimacy Habits

Small Rituals When Life is Life-ing for Reconnection & Joy.

Daily 10‑Minute Intimacy Rituals to re-center you in closeness, even on your busiest day.
The Initiation Guide to help you ask for intimacy—or lovingly say no, without guilt.
Never-Ending Conversation Starters + Playful Prompts to bring back laughter, curiosity, and shared sensuality
Bonus!! Getaway to Get Closer: The Intimacy Reset Guide for Couples on Vacation

don't wait another second to get started

Every day that passes is another day you'll wish you had this figured out

— Avery & Jordan

"We felt seen in a way we never had before."

“We’d been stuck in a rut for so long barely talking, no affection, just coexisting. Working with Marissa was the first time we felt like someone truly got us. She didn’t make us feel broken, she helped us understand what was underneath the distance. Now we’re more affectionate, more honest, and yes we're finally intimate again and it's so much better than before!”

— Imani & Leo

"She helped us talk about the stuff we were avoiding."

“We’ve both been in therapy before, but intimacy was always the part we avoided. Marissa helped us talk about it without the awkwardness we usually feel because of our religious upbringings. We’re having real conversations now about sex, our issues with parenting, everything. We’re starting to enjoy each other again, we haven't been this good in a long time.”

— Tasha & Scott

"We were on different pages sexually and honestly, thinking about separating."

“We’d been married for 20 years and struggling with different levels of desire for a long time. I wanted more closeness, my partner pulled away sexually and we just kept hurting each other. We didn't talk about sex much in therapy. But Marissa's program gave us tools that actually worked. She helped us talk about sex without it turning into a fight.

We started understanding each other instead of blaming, and the way we connect now emotionally and physically is totally different. We're not perfect, but this changed everything for us.”

Intimacy Doesn’t Fix Itself — But You Don’t Have to Do It Alone.

Here's the Real Risk:

Research shows most couples wait over 6 years before facing their intimacy issues —and that’s six more years of stale sex routines, fading desire, unspoken tension, and disconnected evenings. And by the time most seek help, the emotional distance feels insurmountable. Don’t let that be your story.

Your healing starts here. With tools, support, and expert guidance designed to bring you back to each other—with less pressure, more play, and deeper trust than ever before.

💸 Let’s Talk About the Real Value

To get the Lover's Society level of support in addition to traditional therapy, here’s what you’d need:

Weekly Couples Therapy: $200/session × 4 = $800/month
Individual Therapy for Each Partner: $150/session × 2 partners × 4 = $1,200/month
Sex Therapy Sessions: $250/session × 4 = $1,000/month
Somatic Bodywork or Nervous System Coaching: $150/session × 4 = $600/month
Communication Workshops or Intimacy Retreats: Easily $2,500+ per event
Ongoing Coaching (from an un-licensed sex coach), Support Groups & Courses: $1,000/month

Total estimated monthly spend:

$7,000+

....And Intimacy is still a big unresolved issue!

You’ll get immediate access to every training, guide, live session, and coaching calls inside The Lovers Society for a fraction of its full value:

FLEXIBLE PAYMENTS

$97 per month

✓Founding Member status - cohort access

✓Less than the cost of one therapy session — but packed with 10x the support

✓over 35 hours of on-demand relationship courses & content

✓ Intimacy Toys & Product discounts

12 PAYMENTS OF $97

SAVE SOME MONEY

One payment

$997/Year

✓Everything in our monthly membership PLUS

✓Save $167 — 2 months free!

✓ Free 360 relationship assessment

✓ A 30-MINUTE BREAKTHROUGH Private Coaching Call

1 PAYMENT OF $997

"Working with Marissa & being part of The Lovers Society has completely transformed our marriage."

We were on the brink, and everyday were getting better and stronger as a couple. The daily micro-habits were great for our super busy schedules and kids!

christopher r.

"All the resources and guidance is so helpful!"

The office hours and date nights were so great for us, it gave us a chance to ask questions and work through our challenges every week with support.

vivianne L.

ready for a change?

🔥 By the End of 2025, If You Commit to the Process…

…and actually show up. watch the lessons, try the tools, join the conversations—you won’t just feel closer. You’ll be more connected, confident, and turned-on in your relationship than ever before.

You’ll have the tools to make your intimacy piping hot — and keep it that way.

You’ll stop overthinking intimacy and start living a pleasure-centered, emotionally rich life.

And you’ll catch yourself when you misstep, taking ownership and apologizing with love.

You’ll stop keeping score and start working as a team again.

You’ll navigate stress and exhaustion without letting it steal your connection.

You’ll bring the fun back to foreplay, flirting, and feeling like lovers again .

TAKE ME TO THE LOVERS SOCIETY COMMUNITY NOW!

hey there, i'm marissa nelson, lmft

Award-Winning Sex Therapist. Certified Sexuality Educator. Global Keynote Speaker. Relationship Guru. Known for One-of-a-Kind Results.

I’m not your average therapist, because the work I do is rare, real, and radically effective.

I’m the one couples call when they’ve tried everything else and still feel miles apart. I bring softness & deep empathy with the precision and passion of someone trained to walk couples through the fire — and back into each other’s arms. For almost 15 years, I’ve helped CEOs, Fortune 500 executives, caregivers, power couples, and parents untangle emotional shutdowns, reignite sex lives, and finally feel seen, hopeful, and wanted again.

From TEDx stages to global conferences, I’ve taught that intimacy isn’t just about sex — it’s about healing, truth-telling, and pleasure on your terms. If you’re stuck, burned out, or feel like your partner is a stranger in your bed, I built The Lovers Society just for you.

My love letter to you.

I created this TEDx Talk for every couple who’s ever said, “We love each other, but something’s missing.” It’s the culmination of thousands of stories I’ve heard over my career from couples aching to reconnect—but unsure how.

I created this talk to speak to the quiet heartbreak of disconnection—the kind that builds slowly over time, even when the love is still there.

What happened next was humbling. It became a TED Editors’ Pick, reached Top 10 worldwide in new releases, and sparked a global conversation about the sexual loneliness no one talks about.

If you’ve ever felt the distance…This is for you.

If This Hit Home, The Lovers Society Is the Next Step.

Felt That in Your Gut? Know this: healing disconnection is possible. You don’t have to figure it out alone. Inside The Lovers Society, I’ll guide you (and your partner) step-by-step to rebuild the intimacy, communication, and emotional safety you’ve been missing.

✔️ Proven tools to reconnect—without pressure or performance
✔️ Real clarity on what’s blocking desire, trust, or closeness
✔️ Small, powerful steps that feel doable—even on your hardest days

You got this - and we've got you.

JOIN THE LOVER'S SOCIETY →

THE LOVER'S SOCIETY COMMUNITY PLAN

Every month inside The Lovers Society, you’ll get the tools, support, and community to make this the best year of your relationship — one week, one win at a time.

🌌Live Monthly Workshops — Expert-led trainings with Marissa Nelson, LMFT, Certified Sex Therapist, and top guest experts in intimacy, communication, and holistic wellness. Valued at $1,997/month

✨The Lovers Library™: Masterclass Vault - On-demand courses, scripts, and tools to deepen communication, and unlock lasting pleasure — anytime, anywhere. Valued at $1,997/month

💬 Weekly Group Coaching + Office Hours with Marissa - Direct feedback, support, and laser coaching from one of the top relationship therapists in the world. Valued at $4,997

📓Weekly 5-Minute Intimacy Guides - Bite-sized, research-backed tools to bring closeness, eroticism, and emotional safety back into your everyday life. Valued at $197/month

🎯 Weekly Intimacy Challenges - Small actions that lead to big results — reignite desire, rebuild connection, and stop waiting for the “perfect time.” Valued at $147/month

🧠 Somatic Practices for Nervous System Healing - Guided EFT tapping, breath-work, meditations, and body-based tools to regulate stress, open to pleasure, and feel safe in your body again. Valued at $997

🗣️ Conversation Starters, Scripts + The Intimacy Confidence Toolkit - No more blank stares. These tools help you start the talks that lead to trust, turn-ons, and transformation.Valued at $297/month

🔥 Mini Courses on Desire, Mismatched Libidos, Trust & Emotional Safety - Short, potent courses to help you move through stuck points and find your rhythm again. Valued at $2,497

💝 Exclusive Member Perks + Bonuses - Surprise pop-ups, discount access to retreats, limited-edition guides, and members-only upgrades. Valued at $5997+

💎 Total Real Value: Over $18,197/month in expert-level coaching, support, and transformation!

THE TOOLS THAT TURN INSIGHT INTO INTIMACY

MONTHLY THEMES TO MAKE THIS YOUR MOST CONNECTED YEAR EVER.

(Here's a sneak peek at some of the hot-button topics we will cover inside!)

Intimacy and Mismatched Desire

Reclaiming Pleasure From Trauma

How to Feel Comfy Talking About Sex 101

Reconnecting When You’re Touched Out, Burnt Out, or Shut Down

Communication & Conflict Repair 101

Re-Building Trust & Intimacy After Affairs

Stress, Work, and Intimacy for Busy Executives

Money, Power, and Relationship Dynamics

Parenting & the Intimacy Comeback

Re-Imagining Intimacy - Exploring Foreplay, Fetish & BDSM